Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for her own personal gain.
"Recent disappointments and failures have led her to be overly cautious. Needs to feel secure and safe from being further let down, looked over, or losing respect. Has no hope that things will get better, mostly because she makes irrational demands on others and refuses to compromise."
Feels unhappy and isolated because she is unable to succeed in finding the cooperation and understanding she desires.
Applies tough standards to her potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in her sex life.
Applies tough standards to her potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in her sex life.
"Wants to make a good impression on others and be seen as a special individual, like no one else. she is constantly observing how others react to her and to make sure this is true. she knows how to effectively gain special recognition, by planning and scheming. she is draw to things which are beautiful and unique."
"Has been disappointed and let down, believes it is pointless to come up with new goals as they will most likely disappoint as well. Needs to be recognized and respected, but is worried about the future. Reacts by avoiding situations where she will be criticizes or others will attempt to influence her. Tries to take charge of the situation by controlling the details and strengthen her position. "
Afraid she will not be able to achieve the things she wants and demands others recognize and acknowledge this right to them.